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Maheen's avatar

This is so beautiful and so intelligent and so achingly honest I will think about it forever. Also thank you for introducing me to Mary Barnes.

soph's avatar

I am so glad to have you by my side in this

Matt Akatia's avatar

You are an artist. That means there is no such thing as wasted time, it is all just research.

soph's avatar

This is such a beautiful way to put it. You're right!!

Tahyowrites 💕's avatar

This made me cry

I spent so many years living for others simply because I didn't want to be abandoned and this helped console a part of me I didn't realize was crying

Thank you

I loon forward to more of your amazing words

soph's avatar

Thank you so much for your love <33

I'm so glad it reached you. We'll figure it out!!

kalani  ☆'s avatar

This is so beautiful!

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Thank you!!!!

A.M.K.'s avatar

This is incredible and scary how much I relate

Journals and Art's avatar

This is so beautiful I cried 😭

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:’) thank u I’m SORRY xx

Ystel's avatar

you really have a way of making complex emotions feel tangible. thank you for sharing this!

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this is a beautiful thing to say!! thank you <3

sophie 🧚‍♀️'s avatar

hello! my name is also sophie and this hit remarkably close to home; everything from the hinge egomania and emotionally untouchable persona, to attempting to find yourself in the wrong person. this is beautiful and raw and everything i needed to see this morning. i appreciate you and your words more than i can say. thank you.

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hi also sophie!!! I’m glad we can all feel lonely about the same things together. it’s so comforting to have found a little community grieving the same shitty experiences. thank you for your kind words <3

Jane Park's avatar

In love with this

Balqîs's avatar

This is so vulnerable and intimate, your writing just spoke to my heart and ive realised I could relate much more than I’d like to admit. Let’s be gentle with ourselves, it’s only our first time living, and we didnt grow up with the right role models. We’re doing alright with the tools we have.

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It's only our first time being alive!!! We're allowed to be confused and make mistakes!! We'll figure it out <3

louise pickles's avatar

You are an incredible writer and artist, soph. What you write is so relatable and develops into some very detailed imagery. Thank you for sharing. ♡

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Thank you so much! these comments are so lovely <33

Lady Sol's avatar

This post alone taught me another way to perceive and process my grief and heartbreak. This is exactly what I needed to hear, this came at the perfect time. Your words are truly inspiring and wise and capture everything that I did not previously have the language to say. But I felt it, I felt every word. Thank you so much. I love this space soo much. Rooting for you and all of us out there trying to learn how to become the love that we seek!!

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Rooting for us!! this was such a lovely lovely lovely comment.. thank you so much <333 I'm glad we're all in it together

PseudoPsycho's avatar

your words and your world is beautiful, i feel privileged to read and have this glance into your world. Having a chameleon soul that mirrored the world is a great skill, bring brave and finding your true self is remarkable

- xoxo, a fan of your writing

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The world has always been beautiful!!! Thank you so much for your lovely words <33

The Eternal Return's avatar

Thank you so much!! This is absolutely beautiful and amazing and so relatable!

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Thank you so much !!! <3

Inga Winter's avatar

I couldn’t stop reading this